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1st Jun 2009 Posted in: Blog Posts, Momhood, Radio, Road Diaries 3

Ladies and gentlemen, drumroll please…I have recovered from the Macbook/lemonade incident which will be discussed later in this blog…and I am proud to announce:


It’s the CINDERBLOCK BOOKSHELVES DESERT RAT TOUR BLOG POST!!! PART ONE!!!

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Booking done, travel arrangements made, press releases out, van packed…Desert Rat Tour 2009! Whoo hoo! Here we go!


“Uh…Rain? What does this light mean?”

“I don’t know – maybe we should call Kim.”

Kim says: “Can you send me a picture of it?” “Uh, sure.” “Oh, that? No problem. It happens all the time.”

Rock and roll! Desert Rat Tour 2009! We’re on our way to Las Vegas!

I bet you didn’t know there was a great Mexican restaurant in Boron. Mmmmm. Sasha requires that I drink a Cadillac Margarita. I’m not driving, so hey!

We travel along part of old Route 66 past a graveyard of rusting signs, barking dogs and laundry.


Las Vegas rises from the desert. We pick Danny up at McCarran, who is fueled on a hot dog and coffee and ready to rehearse. I like that in a musician. After lovely sodas and guacamole at Sasha’s folks’, we head to a nice hotel. I cook spaghetti in my super-groovy modern room…


and we go over all the songs and sound cues for “Cinderblock Bookshelves.”

Sasha returns from dinner with her parents, and she and I are beat. But Danny is not, and is off to the Bellagio for drinks with the Blue-Haired Blonde.

In the morning, after a refreshing frigid soaking from the showerhead that is unexpectedly ON and POINTED DIRECTLY AT ME, we get in the van and set out to drive six hours towards Colorado. Did you get any sleep, Danny? “Oh, yeah, plenty. I slept from about 6:00 am to 9:00.”

Sasha used to live in a little town in Utah called Brianhead, so we make a pilgrimage up the mountain, stopping to break the law in a very civilized way:



Sasha loves this country:

She lived here for years. But it’s changing, which is making her a little blue. More buildings, new chair lifts, more sprawl.

But she is cheered by a sighting of Mr. & Mrs. Claus, on their summer vacation:

It is great to be on the road. But I’m always a little apprehensive about leaving the family, and there’s the question of whether we’ll all get along for a week jammed in a Toyota Sienna. Will we have enough to talk about?

There is only one place to stay in Green River, Utah. Literally: most of the hotels are boarded up. But this place is really very nice.


Except, as Danny helpfully points out, for the ominous threat of the Green River Killer…omigod, there he is, Sasha, watch out!

“Howdy, Ma’am. Are you traveling alone?”

I decide it’s probably safe to have dinner with him in a crowded place. But I think he is affiliated with a street gang…


In the morning, in perhaps a foreshadowing of mishaps to come, I am carrying luggage down to the parking lot and I trip on the stairs and fall right on my a**. Very graceful. A nice hotel guy helps me up, but it is totally embarrassing and I tweak my knee. Argh. Sasha gets some ice from the hotel and we resume our rock and roll quest.

On the voyage from Green River to Carbondale, Danny will begin a new chapter in his life. Inspired by the sheer emptiness of the road…



…and perhaps lulled into reverie by the Wilco album I am forcing him to listen to, he will create his “Zen” series of films.

There are four. Please watch them all in their entirety. I honestly think he has out-Yoko’d Yoko Ono with this work.

 

We roll into Carbondale early and go for a fancy vegan lunch. I know there will be an article in the Aspen Times, so we rifle through the stack of newspapers on the bar. I read through the front section and don’t find the article. Sasha comes up holding the second section. “Uh, Rain…do you think this might be it?”




Thank you, Stewart Oksenhorn! Wow. Now it’s time to go over to KDNK for our on-air appearance, which goes essentially fine, but please remind me that I am NOT GOOD AT COUNTING OFF SONGS. Sorry, Danny. But thank you, Cat, for telling everyone to listen online.

And look! They have a freebox at the radio station, so I feel right at home.


Sasha and I have practiced setting up the set at my house, so when we get to Steve’s Guitars she is unloading and sorting like a calm, capable banshee. However, I have made a tactical error by not reminding myself how to work the wireless mic. Steve is lovely – a font of reassuring wisdom. But it takes a while. I call the sound guru Dirk Schubert at 7:30 pm. He picks right up, and in the calm voice, asks: “Is this the panic call?” “Not quite yet,” I lie, and hand the phone to Steve, who goes over everything with Dirk and gets it all working. Whew!

Everyone’s in – it’s packed, and our set actually fits in the guitar shop. Once again, I am grateful to Robert Prior for his excellent set design.

Before:


After:

And so begin a series of evenings filled with wonderful, attentive audiences and monstrous technical snafus. We had bought a spare lamp for the projector before we left town (at $250!), but guess what – it is the FAN that goes out that night, causing the projector to overheat with the resulting unpredictable loss of images on the screen behind me. But Sasha never gives up, rebooting probably twenty times. And the audience stays with us the whole time.

At the curtain call, I get the audience to sing, because it’s Danny’s birthday!! My cousin Sierra has made him the most awesome cake.


Then he and Steve talk shop.


My old friend Russell has driven down from Boulder and it is crazy and great to see him after – yikes – nearly thirty years. Oh, god, I can’t believe I wrote that.

One more picture from Steve’s:



After a long, deep late night conversation with my aunt and cousin about our family, and breakfast at the Village Smithy, we head out – one step ahead of the Green River Killer’s northeastern compatriot, the Carbondale Cannibal – and are off across the Million Dollar Highway past Ouray to Silverton and Durango. Sasha ably navigates. Danny loves the road – it is his natural habitat. As you can see, he is quite at home:


I think about the fact that he was on tour with the Clash when I was a fourteen-year-old here learning how to play the guitar. He never runs out of killer rock and roll stories, and I am happy for that.

It’s beautiful in the summertime, but I would not want to drive a snowplow here. Holy mackerel. Sasha is surehanded at the wheel, which is good because there are NO GUARDRAILS HALF THE TIME. Danny wants to know when we will get to the beautiful part of the drive. In Silverton, we stop for lunch and Sasha literally bumps into some friends she knew in Vegas. Don’t you find that always happens? Yet it always seems so unbelievable.

Danny on an important candy-related errand:



Hard to believe, but my dad and I made it through a winter in this country in a VW bug with no snow tires.



Then we come out of the mountains, driving past my old school, and into Durango. I don’t remember it being quite so touristy – but I guess it was. Being broke and underage gives you a slightly different perspective. But we don’t really have time to look at much, as we are racing to Fort Lewis College for the show.

Again, we are there in plenty of time, and though the set looks great on the big stage:



…again we are plagued by technical problems. The staff tries to help, but we seem to be cursed. Add to this the fact that we find out that the college actually had its graduation a week before my show so there are no students on campus, and it begins to feel a tad Spinal Tap-esque. But the few people who do come matter so much – my beloved friend Michael Bolotin and a group from my old school (the school prominently featured in the “defloweration” section of the evening!) – and again the play has brought me in touch with folks I haven’t seen in years. And the teenagers are great and want to compare notes about which cabin I lived in and the way things were then and the way they are now.

Break down the set. Store the merch. Store the gear. Pay the rental for the venue (gotta rethink that kind of booking). Secret wine with Michael and his dog Iko in the college parking lot (Iko does not drink the wine) and we are on the road again. We just barely elude yet another threat, the Durango Demon, and drive southwest towards the Navajo reservation. Sasha, champ she is, is game for three more hours on the road, but wonders briefly how much elevation we are gaining, as it has now started snowing. But just as she asks it begins to dissipate.

When I booked this tour, it made sense to try to get three hours under our belt so the drive to Phoenix the next day wouldn’t be so grueling. But now we’re pretty frickin’ tired. Still, we soldier on. As we pass Kayenta and turn up 163, we sense towering forms outside the van. It’s too dark to really see, but you can’t help but know that you have arrived in Monument Valley. After the 2:00 am check in at the hotel the Navajos just opened, we crash for the night. I had debated – it costs twice as much as the Hampton Inn in Kayenta, but this awesome crew deserves something really special. It will be wonderful to wake up here in the morning.

Is it worth it? You tell me:





Sasha is more ambitious than I am, and she can’t wait to get out into the red dirt on a morning run. Plus my knee is still throbbing. Danny and I go for breakfast.



We are stoked to realize that Phoenix is not on daylight savings time, so on the night with the least potential amount of sleep we have gained an hour. Still, ever aware of the persistent threat, we strike out just ahead of the Monument Valley Masher and head south. I inform my van-mates that there will be no more beauty on this trip. Hot dry desert from here on out. But of course it isn’t true. Flagstaff is gorgeous.

At lunch we begin to think about our upcoming house concert in Las Vegas. In the play we don’t do the full songs, so now we have to think about this quite differently. We begin to work up a set list.



From Flagstaff to Phoenix, the desert is subtly beautiful. And today we will get another crew member: Kim!

Next post: Why I Love Google Maps, the tale of the terrifying Hole of Hoover, and Vegas, Baby!

 


9th Jul 2008 Posted in: Blog Posts, Momhood 0

It’s summer! It’s too hot to post anything.


22nd Jan 2008 Posted in: Blog Posts, Momhood 0

OMG. I knew it would be overwhelming, but it was at least 10x more so than I could have imagined.

Here is the journal of Rain & Stella’s trip to the INAUGURATION!!!!

Newark was the closest we could get to DC without using double air miles, so we flew there on Saturday, then drove down to Philadelphia. Sunday morning I dragged Stella around in the cold to look at historic sites she was not very interested in. But to me it felt perfect to spent some time before the Inauguration at the place where the Declaration of Independence was signed, and to see the Liberty Bell. I didn’t realize that the Liberty Bell has been used as a symbol throughout our history. Abolitionists used it, as did Suffragists, to signify the disparity between our ideals of liberty and the reality of the moment. So it felt particularly appropriate as inaugurate a president who has vowed to end torture and restore our American ideals and standing in the world.

Sunday evening we arrived at a sweet little bed & breakfast in Annapolis run by a great lady named Heidi, who made us feel very welcome. (As I type, I’m looking out our window and seeing Annapolis in daylight for the first time!)

On Monday, Obama called for a National Day of Service. We had gone to USAService.org and signed up to volunteer at the Mt. Zion Cemetery in Northwest DC, cleaning up and cataloguing the graves of the oldest black cemetery in the country. Once in ruins and eyed by developers, the cemetery was saved by the community and has received National Historic status for its role as a stop on the Underground Railroad. After the cleanup, there would be a tree planted in honor of Martin Luther King, Jr.

There were over two hundred people at the cemetery. They gave us forms to fill out to log in each grave. We were taken on a tour, and stood above the frozen river in front of a crypt where they’d place the bodies during the winter until the ground was soft enough to bury them. The guide told us that escaped slaves who had made their way North up the river would hide here behind trees, behind graves and even in the crypt. To stand there the day before Barack Obama’s Inauguration and imagine the terror and the cold those people felt – well, it was very, very heavy.

Once we were done, we came inside to the mansion that now serves as community building, and we ate donuts and listened to hopeful, proud speeches. A drum group came in (including a little boy who was almost shorter than his drum), and everyone danced and clapped as the “libation” was passed in a ceremonial bowl.

Once we were done, we walked back to the Metro, and in the middle of Dupont Circle was an anti-war rally and a giant inflated George W. Bush, at which crowds were hurling shoes. Honestly, it made me a little sad, but as I told Stella, it makes me proud to be an American, because there are many countries in the world where these people would be jailed or killed for expressing their feelings about their president this way.

We took the train downtown. Here’s Stella outside the white house. There were lots of black Suburbans parked outside.

Finally, we took the train back out to Annapolis to try to get ready for the big, overwhelming, cold, joyous day!

Inauguration Day!

I had hoped to get going by 4 or 5 am. But that was unrealistic with a tired 11-year-old. So at 6:00 am we approached the New Carrollton station – end of the line closest to Annapolis – and freeway signs alerted us that it was already closed – full. I was already stressed about the logistics of the day, so after a moment of breakdown, I regrouped and found my way to another station on a different line, where we made it on the train. As we approached the Mall area, the train was crowded, but everyone was in a good mood. Still, we were unprepared for how packed the station would be. Because of a medical emergency on the escalator, thousands of us were packed in L’Enfant Plaza for an hour. Truly dicey. Here’s Stella in the masses.

It was, frankly, scary, because if anything had gone wrong it would have been…well, you know. And I’m not claustrophobic, but I’ve never been underground with that many people before! But everyone kept it together, shouting “O-B-A-M-A, Obama! Obama!” and singing “We Shall Overcome.” Finally we made it up the escalator (which they had turned off), and the Metro employees urged us up and out, shouting “keep moving! Obama’s waiting for you!” Stella loved that. At the top of the escalator there were several dozen people who were already having some kind of problem. Older women were resting on chairs, recovering from the crowds. A paramedic crew was bringing in a gurney as we made our way out the station door.

On the street we found ourselves in another cattle chute moving towards the mall – another half hour to go two blocks. Stella was more interested in the parade than the swearing-in, so I had sprung for eBay-scalped tickets to the parade. I had figured we would make our way across the west side of the Mall to our designated entrance on 12th street, the only bleachers on the south side. But as soon as we shuffled our way around to 14th street, it was clear there was no frickin’ way we were going to get across the Mall. I thought maybe we’d go down towards the Lincoln Memorial and somehow get up Constitution Avenue, but there was no way out of the area where we were. (If you look at the Mall from the Capitol, we were just in front and to the left of the Washington Monument.)

I couldn’t believe we were not going to make it to the parade, and Stella was bummed, but finally we just planted our feet as the crowd crammed in closer and closer.

It was c-cold! We had 5 layers on, plus blankets we had planned to sit on. Our bags were stuffed with all the books and water and iPods and snacks we had packed for a day spent in the bleachers.

As over two hours ticked by, we both had moments of maxing out, wanting to bail, but luckily not at the same time, so we stayed.

And then…it began. We could barely see the Jumbotron, but we could hear everything.

There was some booing for Bush & Cheney, and some singing of “Nah nah nah nah, hey hey hey, goodbye.” At the booing, a woman behind me said “C’mon, people, don’t do that. Make our President proud of you.”

The size of the crowd is yet to be officially determined (but I’m hearing on CNN 1.5 to over 2 million) By the way, don’t pay any attention to the first satellite pictures released today showing crowds in clusters with space between them. Those pictures had to have been taken early, because by the time the ceremony started the Mall had filled in completely.

The music. Hearing Aretha’s voice ring out over the millions was the first thing that made me cry. Then, after Joe Biden was sworn in, the ensemble led by Yo-Yo Ma and Itzhak Perlman in its unadorned, crystalline beauty: “‘Tis the gift to be simple, ’tis the gift to be free…” I felt: “thank you, thank you. We need this President right now.” It’s time to slow down, to recognize and be glad for what we have, to not crave so much, to simplify.

Then Obama stepped forward and the crowd got really quiet. I thought, “Did John Roberts just mess up oath of office?” He did, because Obama paused, thrown, and then Roberts tried again as Obama jumped in and said it wrong so as not to embarrass him. It was so charming. And then all the cold, the scary claustrophobia, and the lack of sleep were worth it for this moment: being there to hear and be part of the spontaneous WHOOP of all those people the moment he was sworn in. And the sobbing (myself included) and hugging and, most of all, the look of serene pride on the faces.

I’m afraid I didn’t hear the poem very well, because many people started moving right after Obama’s speech and I decided we probably should clear out too before we had hundreds of thousands pushing against us from behind. We reached the street and sat on a window ledge for 45 minutes waiting for the crowd to thin. Stella was relieved to finally get to sit and read the third Twilight book. Then we moved again. It took a while, but we finally made it across the Mall.

Downtown, people were literally dancing in the street.

As we made our way along H street, we saw that there were still people in security lines trying to get in to see the parade! We killed time and stayed warm in two different restaurants waiting for the parade to end (and rueing the Metro-provided twists of fate that kept us from our alloted seats). But I spoke to a few people, and now I understand that the bleachers we were assigned to were nearly empty because no one made it there. As it turns out, we probably ended up having a better experience than we would have if we had spent our time (like one woman whose post I just read) waiting in a security logjam unable to see anything.

And by the way, there were NO security checkpoints on the metro or for anyone coming into the Mall. That surprised me.

One more thing: as Stella and I were sitting on the street after the swearing in, I heard a helicopter that sounded bigger than the others and looked up to see Marine One flying directly overhead. It circled the Washington Monument before arcing off to take Bush to the airport. No one around seemed to know what they were witnessing, but I thought of Nixon and that classic photograph and had to wonder how it felt for Bush to look down on his way to Texas and see that teeming crowd.

In the picture, you won’t actually see the helicopter, because by the time my frozen iPhone got it together to click, it had flown behind Washington Monument.

I am so tired but so glad we came. Stella is glad we came.

Phew.

WE DID IT. I cannot really believe it.

Love, Rain

In the masses in The Mall

29th Nov 2007 Posted in: Blog Posts, Momhood 0


Local musician Phyllis Kathryn ‘Kae’ Herron dies

Big band singer, songwriter, formed the Melodears in 1977

By Alicia Doyle
Correspondent
Tuesday, November 27, 2007

After a lifetime rich with her musical talent and fun-loving spirit, Phyllis Kathryn “Kae” Herron died Nov. 12 at her Ventura home, her family said. She was 90.

“She was a very small person, only 4 feet 10 inches tall when she reached 90 years old, but she had a mighty spirit,” said her daughter Robbie Frandsen of Los Angeles. “She remained funny, kind, gracious and humble to her very last day.”

Born April 29, 1917, in Vallejo, Herron (nee Brown) spent her teens and early 20s singing with big bands in the San Francisco Bay Area, most notably the Horace Heidt Orchestra.

Hollywood Clowns was start

In 1939, she married Bob Herron, a naval officer, and they had two daughters, Melody and Robyn. Kae and Bob, now 96, would have celebrated their 68th anniversary this year. There are two grandchildren and two great-grandchildren.

“Kae gave birth to her first child at the naval base in Honolulu, having boarded Pan Am’s first commercial flight after World War II and traveled to Hawaii to be with her husband when she had the baby,” said Rain Perry, Herron’s granddaughter. “There was no family housing yet at Pearl Harbor, so Bob had to make a special request.”

The Herron family moved quite a bit throughout the West Coast and East in support of Bob’s career as a salesman of tabulating machines for IBM.

In the late ’60s, they settled in the San Fernando Valley, where Kae Herron began performing with a group led by Jerry Patterson called the Hollywood Clowns. They went on to perform as a duo at dozens of birthday parties, from Pacific Palisades to East Los Angeles.

Wrote more than 100 songs

After her husband retired from IBM, the couple moved to Ventura Marina Mobile Home Park in 1974 and Kae joined the musical variety group The Rhythmettes as a pianist.

“When Kae joined the Rhythmettes, they were a kazoo band,” said Perry, an Ojai resident and award-winning singer-songwriter in her own right. “My grandma wanted to do something more interesting, so she formed the Melodears in 1977.”

Some of the members had musical experience, some none at all, but it didn’t matter to Herron.

“They just needed enthusiasm and a good work ethic,” Perry said, adding that her grandmother wrote sophisticated musical arrangements for vocal quartets, violin trios, melodicas and kazoos. Over the years, the Melodears performed at events and community centers, nursing homes and private parties throughout Ventura County.

“She was always going out and getting paying jobs for them; they called her the benevolent dictator,” Frandsen said. “She did all the arrangements, wrote everything out by hand on sheet music. … She had perfect pitch and a beautiful voice. She wrote over 100 songs.”

In the late 1970s, Kae and Bob Herron wrote “San Buenaventura.” The tune turned out to be very popular with Kae Herron’s audiences, and for many years she performed the song at every Melodears concert, Frandsen said.

“In the mid-1980s, my mom professionally recorded the song and released it on cassette. … She’s sold numerous copies to friends and fans,” she said. “Almost no Melodears concert would go by without a request for this song.”

An excellent tap-dancer

Mickey Knapp of Camarillo met Herron 16 years ago when she joined the Melodears.

“She had the most brilliant mind. … She wrote music and played the organ, barely touching the pedals because she was so little,” recalled Knapp, 81. “She was a remarkable woman.”

In the late ’70s, Herron performed for the public during weekly lunchtime concerts on the Carillon in City Hall, with hourlong performances typically based on a theme, like Christmas, weather or girls’ names.

From Perry’s perspective as a singer-songwriter, her grandmother has been a fundamental influence.

“I learned how to work a crowd, how to wrap a mic cable, how to compose a set list that flows, to be professional yet always gracious,” Perry said. “When I needed to borrow some equipment, I could call my grandmother. Also, she always kept an open mind when it came to music, never judging any new trend.”

Herron also was an excellent tap-dancer throughout her life and through her 90s, Frandsen said.

“She taught a good friend who was only 80 to tap, and the two of them danced together twice a week for fun,” Frandsen said.

In August, Herron performed a song at her mobile home park’s weekly happy hour.

“Without even using the stairs leading to the stage floor, she simply stepped up onto the stage,” recalled Frandsen, adding that her mother took up weight training in 1998 after learning that resistance training reverses osteoporosis and can rebuild bone.

“When her friends asked in amazement how she was able to do this at age 90, my mother said, I’m in weight training,’ ” Frandsen recalled.

“She continued lifting three times a week without fail, performing both upper and lower body strengthening exercises. In 2006, Kae’s bone density was that of a 20-year-old.”

Looking back on her mother’s optimism and zest for life, Frandsen said her legacy will live on.

“When she moved to the retirement community, she saw her life expanding, not shrinking,” Frandsen said.

“Her community — especially older people — were really inspired by the fact that she was always doing something new.”

A memorial service for Kae Herron is scheduled at 11 a.m. Dec. 8 at Ventura Marina Mobile Home Park, 1215 Anchors Way, in the main clubhouse. Lunch will follow.

To RSVP, call Herron’s daughter Robbie at 818-209-8926.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests memorial donations be made to Hermon Community Church, 5718 Monterey Road, Los Angeles 90042. (Designate the Benevolent Fund.)

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26th Jun 2007 Posted in: Blog Posts, Momhood 0

Two great nights last week of staged readings of my play, Cinderblock Bookshelves with Danny B. Harvey.

I think I’m way too soccer-mom-esque to work with cool people like Danny, but doing a play is an artistic experience that’s new and different for a guitar player. So, yay.

New album coming AND a tour. Want to be my street team leader? I’m looking for small theaters – 50-99 seats – that would like to have a one- or two-night stand of a one-woman play. Mid-week is fine. If you know of anything like that in your neck of the woods, I’d sure love to hear about it!